Women are women and it does not matter whether it is Ukrainian woman, American woman or Chinese woman. All women like men of some special types.
It is fairly safe to say: many men, many types.Lets see at the most common.They are all different and prefer different women, because one key can’t open all the locks.
Every man choose himself woman of the appropriate character and temperament. Another issue is that usually we like those who do not suite us and vice verse.
So, men types:
1. Lion-man. With such a man woman can go through fire and water, and generally anywhere. He is strong, brave and determined. He is “like a stone wall.”
Lion-man prefers weak, romantic and tender female whom he would like to protect and preserve.
2. Mole-man. Such kind of man doesn’t need anything, he likes to spend free time at home, to eat and sleep. He would suit a female Peony – a simple and practical woman.
She would cook food and wash clothes for him, bring up children, and solve all the problems instead of him.
3. Peacock-man. This type of men is called “Narcissus”. He usually blissfully loves himself, believing that there is no one better and prettier than him.
It should be noted that particularly he has no outstanding qualities and traits he possesses. Peacock-man would choose dummy chick, who has only pretty cover.
4. Fox-man. This man is the best of cunning, clever, is an excellent psychologist and always keeps his eyes open.
He chooses a smart, successful, self-sufficient woman.Both of them are independent people, so get along well.
Realizing that love is eternal, and it is not easy to find a decent partner they live without burdening each other’s way of life and without scenes of jealousy.
And even allowing themselves to have other sex partners, they maintain respect for each other.
5. Rabbit-man. He is interested mainly in sex. He changes women, as gloves, and quickly loses all interest to ex-partners.
This type of man has the gift of persuasion: it can convince almost any woman, not even being a handsome man or a tycoon.
He does not need permanent girlfriend for life, but as an “alternate” Rabbit-man can choose unattractive woman, a kind of
“gray mouse”, grateful for his fate and closing his eyes to all his affairs.
6. Dog-man. Devotee man, often one-woman man. Not looking for a crazy passion in life, would prefer a modest, charming, created for the role of wife and mother woman.
For the benefit of his family, they honestly work together and also solve problems together. Maybe they don’t have crazy passion, but their family life is very happy.
7. Panther-man. He combines the quality of some of the above types of men: he is brave, strong, graceful, intelligent, like the man-lion, but more legible.
He appreciates chic, beauty, good society. Not surprisingly, that Panther-man drives women crazy. Women, be wise, he likes only the process of “hunting”.
Pure love, villa by the ocean and a big bank account: times have changed, and Ukrainian Cinderellas are looking for Prince – rich overseas fiancé, who will save them from mediocrity and lack of money. Not only wealth attracts, but also the imagination that abroad they will be always given flowers and gifts, and husband will carry her (his Ukrainian woman) on hands.
After a bit of a lull caused by the crisis, marriage agencies have a lot of work again, because the demand for Ukrainian women for marriage has increased with new interest. One of the reasons, why foreign fiancés are attracted by beautiful and educated Ukrainian girls is because of mixture of European appearance and Asian complaisance. One more factor why Ukrainian women are ready for intercultural marriage is that they are not picky. Young Europeans rarely agrees to marry a 50-60-year-old. Ukrainian women do not see it as interference. However, they do not choose, they are chosen. In western agencies women bear the costs equally with men. In Ukrainian marriage agencies the man pays. Girls only remain to swear “true, loyal and eternal love.” But eternity in such a short-lived marriage is countable. According to statistics, during the first year two thirds of marriages are ending with divorce and related issues.
Most cases there is no love in search of foreign husband. Girls are married off to the country. They are ready to marry anyone, just to get away from Ukraine, where they think nothing can be achieved. Do not want to see the possibilities that, in the meantime, they have in motherland. And still think that they will resolve all their problems abroad. Though, as psychologists say if we do not solve our problems in one place, we simply carry them over to another. Leave without knowing that marriage is threatened in the future, do not look that far. They just want to “break”, and come what may. Even if it’s love (rare cases, because love occurs, when people know each other), the difference in historical approaches to life sooner or later affects. And then it becomes unbearably difficult from understanding errors: being in a foreign country, away from parents, from friends, from native Ukrainian culture. That is why Ukrainian women who seek for marriage abroad do not realize all the seriousness of their steps blinded with desire to build their happiness, often with unknown older abroad looser.
“My favorite Russian accent” – heard I man’s voice from behind. “ What’s your name, Russian beauty? Perhaps thou shalt write your phone number? “- cheeky tone of stranger caused a lot of disturbances. I proudly replied “I am Ukrainian!” But Americans seem to be indifferent to whether I am from Ukraine, Belarus, or Russia. All the people from the former Soviet Union he called «Russians». I tried to explain tactfully that Ukraine and Russia are two different countries, but I’ve read contempt in eyes of unpleasant stranger. “Lets have a drink in a less crowded place?” – continued that bold face. Disclaimer embarrassed him more, and he splashed even more dismissive thing to my address: «Common! Russian women are easy!». For me, these words were an insult, but later I found their explanation.
I told about that situation to my classmates, foreigners with whom we taught English, and to my English-speaking friends and received a reply, which was not expected. Unfortunately, many Ukrainian women proved them not from the best side while have meeting with foreigners. My friend Iryna lives in Spain for over 10 years and has also faced with the same problem. She went there for a work visa and subsequently met with the Spanish man, which is happily married to for nearly six years. “When friends of my future husband learned about my origin, initially skeptical mocked his choice. There were even some situations when we had rest together in the company of my husband’s friends and their new friends from Ukraine and Lithuania. Attitude of Spanish men towards Ukrainian and Lithuanian women was extremely disrespectful, but our beauties patiently tolerated with insult and disrespect”, – says Iryna. That is what attitude has faced with one Ukrainian woman in U.S.A. and her friend in Spain. And this is only one case described here.
Frenchman Gerard, fellow of my English classmate, talked for a long time to Ukrainian girl on the Internet. “Very clever, but such a poor girl – that was his first impression of Svitlana. – I strongly supported her, send her money. But one day she wrote that her mother died, and she has no money for the funeral ceremony. Without a thought, I immediately transferred funds through the «Western Union» and ordered a basket of flowers as a gesture of sincere condolences. But the flowers were no one to pass, as she disappeared, the phone did not answer, and home address was false”.
It is worth mentioning another category of women – with too inflated ambitions. With gorgeous natural data, such women are convinced that deserve life “of the highest quality.”
“If a millionaire wants to have the beautiful wife, he has to pay. I’m not going to give myself just to a simpleton from Ukraine “”, – looking at her pretty face in the mirror, says student Ivona. Approvingly that girls self-esteem is so high, but whether she is aware that the level of intellectual development that has been taken from fashion magazines and night clubs will not suit the needs of millionaire who needs a partner for life, and not a private prostitute.
There is one more interesting story, told by English businessman. Enjoying his experiment, John created two types of questionnaires. In one, he pointed out that he is successful businessman in the UK and made the image of a man whose face even had somewhat repulsive defects. In other profile he posted his true image, but pointed out that he has the average unstable income in Ukraine. He wrote to Ukrainian beauties from both web pages and it appeared that each girl received two letters: one from the rich and quite unattractive man from Britain and the other from the handsome poor man from Ukraine. More than two dozen women responded to ugly businessman, and only three Ukrainian girls were willing to talk to Ukrainian guy.
Omar, young man from Tunisia, said that many times on the Internet he’s acquainted with girls from Ukraine, Belarus, Moldova and other countries of the former Soviet Union. Talks to some of them were very interesting, but it was the exception rather than the rule. Most of the women complained to the hard fate in the homeland, poverty and used all sorts of tricks only to ask for money. They told, for example, they have to pay for Internet or need to recharge cell phone. Often after receiving the money they stopped communicating.
“I willingly went on a business trip to former CIS countries when he had such opportunity “- laughing, tells Omar. “I often used services of marriage agencies and had a choice of 8-10 beauties. Most of them were in fact readily available and often visits ended in my hotel room. After the trip I informed the Agency that none of the girls is my dream.” Travel to the countries of the former USSR Omar jokingly called sex tourism.
It is clear that some foreigners come to Ukraine to meet a truly loved one. Perhaps even most of them are. But imagine for a moment that this man was not meant to find a companion and is not even like Omar, who arrived in Ukraine with a desire to get satisfaction in his free time. A foreigner, who is looking for representatives of the oldest profession, would have a wide field of space for his actions and many girls are willing to forget the basic safety measures, just to leave Ukraine as soon as a foreigner will pick her.
Ukrainian women’s expectations about life “out there” are very often overpriced. In does not mean that Ukrainian girls should avoid aliens, foreigners must be to them the same people, but grown up in a different environment. Among foreigners are both: heroes and villains, respectable people and crooks. Therefore, when communicating on the Internet it is recommended not trust foreigners more than common sense tells you.
Victoria met on the web with John, attractive tall British. Several times he flew to visit her for one or two days and it was very nice and romantic. Their communication was close to wedding. But next visit John came out of the airport all pale and said that he had his money, credit cards and documents stolen. He added that should transfer 8000 dollars for some business contract on the same day, otherwise he will have great trouble with his business. Kind hearted Victoria proposed to help her “almost bride” and gathered the required amount with the help of relatives and friends. Firstly John refused, but then, promised to return the money, just after he comes back to London. Then he got on a plane and never appeared in the life of Victoria.
There are many tools that you can use to protect yourself from scams, communicating on the Internet. But any precautions are not useful when a person does not respect itself such as it is. Low self-esteem and self-doubt often push Ukrainian nicest, most endearing and most attractive women to the embrace of foreign fraudsters.
Ukrainian girls are ready to tell goodbye for the rudeness, selfishness and greed, and appreciate the determination, sense of humor, honesty, intelligence and good manners.
Those are the results of the poll of about 500 girls. The survey was conducted among women who participated in the casting of the new show “Ok, good bye”.
As it turned out, the most critical for the majority of the respondents is a man’s age. 90% of girls will not date with a guy younger than her by more than 10 years. Surprisingly, family status of a potential suitor for the 17% of asked was important; it means that 17% of asked girls are willing to date with a married man.
Appearance is the next important factor in the boys assessment: 80% of girls would rather say “No” to ugly young person, 65% will not date to the one, who is below their growth, and 58% of girls are not going to give a chance if the potential partner has some extra weight. More than half of Ukrainian girls would not want to have any relations with the man who completely have no sense of taste. Note that unattractive, but secured guy more likely to get the favor of girls.
Previous sexual experience (or lack thereof) and the presence of children can make Ukrainian girl to give up the relationship with a man. About half of the respondents are not willing to meet with a male virgin, and 40%, on the contrary – to those men, who had a lot of women in their bed.
Men who are raising children after divorce themselves have risk of rejection from 27% of girls. For its entire rigor in the selection of a potential partner, half of those surveyed young ladies ready to do anything to get the liked the guy.
The survey involved 438 women who completed questionnaires to attend the show. Age of 40% contestants was from 21 to 25 years, another 20% – 26-30 years, and 30% of potential participants were younger than 21 years. Participants of the survey represent all 24 regions of Ukraine and Crimea. About 73% live in Kiev or large cities (47% of them – in the capital), 18% – in the village, medium or small town. Nine out of ten women had never been married; one out of ten has experience of married life. 50% of girls live with parents or relatives, other 50% – on their own, as well as with a girlfriend or boyfriend. More than half (55%) have a Masters Degree, one third – Bachelor Degree. At the same time, almost one-fifth of interviewees are unemployed, 15% – are studying at the moment, all the other occupy positions from specialists to managers.
“I want to marry a foreigner” – such wishes are more and more common among Ukrainian ladies, who visit Ukrainian marriage agencies. There are no accurate statistics on how many women from Ukraine each year permanently leave home. But an increasing interest in overseas men is evidenced by the number of companies that specialize to organize meetings with potential foreign fiancés and Ukrainian brides. Only in Kyiv more than 70 marriage agencies are counted.
For many Ukrainian girls, foreigner is associated with prince from fairy tale. Ukrainian woman thinks when she goes abroad she would get into a different world, everything would be different. Many girls want to get married, to love, to have money, some of them want to be kept by someone and do not work.
Unrequited love in Ukraine, the financial crisis, or simply a desire to live in more civilized country – these are the main reasons why many Ukrainian girls and woman want to leave Ukraine.
Chief of one of Ukrainian marriage agency told that nowadays the most needed type of Ukrainian woman that foreigners are looking for is a woman in it’s 25-35 y.o. Few years before foreign men preferred to choose younger potential bride, but the last 5 years this trend has changed and candidates under 23-25 years of age are not interesting to men from abroad. They want a woman who has already decided on what she wants, not the student.
If mostly young girls are ready to leave Ukraine, potential fiancés, who come to Ukraine, mainly Europeans and Americans are already well over 45. This is what many foreign women are afraid of very much. For example, Dutch television before the beginning of Euro 2012 even began to twist ad with an appeal not to let men go in Ukraine. Like, insidious Ukrainian women will obscure eligible men.
There are days In Kyiv Central Wedding Palace when it is difficult to hear from the lips of the bride Ukrainian or Russian language. People speak English, German, Spanish, Italian, and Turkish. In short, since the beginning of the year Ukrainian women have married to representatives of more than 50 countries.
Typical working day. Here’s Victoria, simple Ukrainian woman, who becomes lawful wife of ordinary Australian guy Simon. After all the formalities, the girl has to explain Simon why they need to bow down to their parents (Ukrainian wedding tradition).
For five months of this year, beginning with the 1st of January to the 1st of June, Kyiv Central Civil Registry has registered 269 marriages of Ukrainian women with foreigners. This is a record for all the years of Ukrainian independence. But no one can say exactly how many Ukrainians are leaving the country. After all, in most cases, people play a wedding abroad and no one sends data from out there.
Ukrainian women more than others think about their appearance, in particular, how do they look when they go out. They are always with makeup. Foreigners like the desire of Ukrainian woman to take care of a man. She wants to be sure that you’re okay. Even small things, like do you have clean shorts and what would you like to eat are pleasant to man from abroad.
According to human rights activists, more than 60 percent of Ukrainian women marriages with foreigners are end with breaks and serious conflicts. Women are often thrown into the street.
Very often foreign men marry Ukrainian girl for she bore him a child. And after a certain period of time, it is very common around three years after the birth of a child, he says that all relations are over and asks Ukrainian woman (his wife) to come back to Ukraine.
Not all Ukrainian women tend to marry a foreigner. To say more, Many Ukrainian woman do not want to see foreigner as her husband, considering them cowards and not adapted to life. Many Ukrainian girls think that it is interesting to spend time and have fun with foreigners, but to associate life with will hardly be possible.
“Romantic Tours” to Ukraine are very popular all over the world: Americans, Canadians, the British, Australians and men from other countries pay dating agencies a lot of money only to find wife in Ukraine.
For example, the British media write that Ukrainian girls conquer the hearts of foreigners not only by natural beauty, but also spiritual qualities and their attitude towards family values. On the other hand journalists lament the fact that Ukrainian young girls have to get married often with old, bald and fat foreigners with despair that comes from material disadvantage.
Many foreigners compare Ukrainian women to their compatriots. In this comparison Ukrainian women do not claim competition.
So what’s so special about Ukrainian women? We offer you only a fraction of Ukrainian girls qualities that are so appreciated by foreigners and very often ignored by Ukrainian men.
1. Beauty. For many years Ukrainian women are rightfully recognized as one of the most beautiful women in the world. According to the foreigners so many beauties can not be found on any street of the world.
2. Domesticity. Ukrainian women like to cook very tasty, keep the house clean and economically maintain family life. Recipes and tips have been sent to Ukrainian women from generation to generation. And Ukrainian women do so not because they “have to”, but because they like to do it.
3. Sensuality. Ukrainian women are passionate and emotional. They display a whole range of women’s feelings: tenderness, jealousy, affection, resentment, compassion, understanding, forgiveness and support.
4. Wisdom. The ability to deal with serious problems, get out of difficult situations, to lead a man to success are those qualities that help Ukrainian women to survive even in the most difficult circumstances.
5. A mother’s love. The love which Ukrainian women give to their children is admirable. No wonder Ukrainian culture has got a lot of songs about mothers and their boundless warmth to their children.
6. Love to work. One of the main adjectives that writers rewarded Ukrainian girls in their books is “hardworking”. “Beautiful and hardworking” – were the main qualities for enviable bride. Times have changed, but incredible ability to work has left in the genes of Ukrainian ladies. Some women are working more than just one job to provide the kids with all needed, remaining gentle loving wives at the same time.
7. Talent. Ukrainian women love to dance and sing, and have a great sense of humor. Almost every girl in Ukraine has some creative talent.
8. Intellect. Ukrainian girls have a high level of intelligence. Many attend universities after school graduation, and later work as programmers, engineers, designers, translators.
9. Respect for religion and parents. Ukrainian tradition says it is needed to love, respect and appreciate parents and the traditions of generations.
10. Desire to be beloved wife. The majority of Ukrainian women since childhood dream to marry a nice husband and create a happy family, keep home comfort and to bring up children.
The fact that Ukraine is home to the most beautiful girls is known far away abroad. In the past ten years in the near and far abroad marrying Ukrainian woman is considered as successful step. Every day international dating sites have hundreds of fresh foreign men who are looking for the woman of his dreams in Ukraine. Of course, not all of them have “serious intentions” which they declare in their application form. Very often all foreigner wants is just banal sex tourism, where foreigners want to find easy relationships cheaply.
However, foreign romance, marriage or sex searchers are increasingly available overestimate naivety of Ukrainian girls. And just underestimate their innate practicality. Girls do not always anxiously eager to take on the burden of marital duties or take a dip in the storm of passion, often they want to travel at the expense of the secured fan, visit with him expensive restaurants and hotels, get some precious little thing to remember about meeting or some sum of money. In this case, many of the “brides” postpone sex for a long period, until the fan finally begin to doubt the sincerity of their feelings and goals of not cheap platonic friendship. Then the bride can gently inform foreign man that, unfortunately, she likes the other, or simply disappear.
Surprisingly, some foreigners for a long time do not realize that they are used. Girls get money in different ways. For example, they take gifts from men – clothes, appliances, etc., and the next day pass gifts to the store and take the money back. There are unscrupulous agencies who are building their business on these girls, they write wonderful letters, and by the grooms are buying apartments and cars.
Let us think why Ukrainian women are so popular among men in the U.S.? Probably even American women often ask themselves this question. American men are willing to find Ukrainian wife and many of them search the web asking search engines for Ukrainian brides and girls to date with. The answer to that is quite easy: Ukrainian women are more tolerant and not that demanding as their western colleagues, but this is just one among all key factors. The other you will know if keeps reading. So, what American man expect from Ukrainian woman? Firstly, she has to be YOUNG. Very rare American compatriot 25 years old or so would like to marry average 50 y.o. man. (by the word “average” I mean unless he is very rich, star, politician, etc.) In addition, if young American woman is pretty, well educated, smart and tolerant to man’s uneasy character and habits she would be looking for coeval, she doesn’t need “anybody” and scrupulously choose the best candidate.
They would earn money together, rise up children and make career and even if she would divorce at the age of 40, she wouldn’t have a need in husband, she would look for young lover because now she needs good sex. Ukrainian women have different stereotype in family and family relations. Husband and children are one unity. American women make their career and money on their own and don’t really need a husband to satisfy her material sights. She is independent and children, husband, sex are separate things to her in case of divorce and on the top of it is her personality. This is different to Ukrainian women and usually she is ready to sacrifice her independence to family and children put and place her own needs to the second place. That is why 50 y.o. American man is looking for young Ukrainian woman with young nice body, naive soul, lovely tenderness, all those criteria that is almost impossible for him to find it in American woman according to his age.
Ukrainian woman are sexy and this is not only slim figure, long legs and natural brest they have another way of sexuality that is somewhere inside of their mind. Ukrainian women are able to listen to the man; they listen attentively to the foreigner, look into the eyes, tying to get closer to emotional space of a man. Nice moves, natural gestures, pretty smile and always good mood those are qualities of Ukrainian woman that make American man out of mind. Ukrainian women are interested in what is man doing and in his business, but do not ask man a lot of questions and never talk a lot about his work. All those things make man think that woman is agreeing with everything he does and this is very important for man.
Ukrainian women are extremely beautiful. American man are shocked when are coming to Ukraine and see Hollywood type of girls everywhere, they are just usual to Ukrainian man, they got used to it. Ukrainian women are that beautiful because of natural beauty that is stored in the genes and except for that they are not lazy to look themselves up. It is a habit to wear fashionable clothes, make up even when going to the store. Where else in the world man can find so gentle women who easily smile, eager to talk, having pretty faces, slim figures, grace of movements, elegance of manners and walking on high hills ever in severe winter. Man doesn’t need to be convinced in her beauty, he sees and feels that and has no doubts.
Ukrainian women are well educated; most of them have graduated from Universities and other higher educational establishments. This is a big plus to have beautiful, smart and wise woman. It makes man proud for him to have such a woman near. In such a way he delights among others.
American men really appreciate femininity of Ukrainian women, a quality that is hard to find nowadays among western women. By the word “femininity” is meant tenderness, romance, tact and need to love and care about her man. American man is sick of man-kind compatriot women who fight with them for money and power in offices and for equal division of duties at home. Sometimes American man has a need in friendly smile and feeling of having rest, sometimes even to talk about his own dismisses without fear being left by wife because she would consider him as looser.
Americans like Ukrainian wives as good housewives. Rarely American woman would be staying in kitchen for hours to prepare something tasty for her man, but Ukrainian wife would. Ukrainian women would clean the house, make laundry and iron your shirt without indignation, because she considers it “women work” and would do it with pleasure for her loving man.
One of main features of Ukrainian women we spoke at the beginning is tolerance. Ukrainian woman is much more tolerant to all the tings like behavior, habits and personal freedom than American women.
Why Americans want to marry Ukrainian woman? Some might see on the experience of other man (friend) who had already married Ukrainian woman. Someone visited dating websites and after watching all that pictures of pretty Ukrainian women just became out of mind could not believe that all those pretties would like to marry him. Someone visited Ukraine in business and can’t forget the feeling of being crowded with such beautiful women everywhere. One more fact is that American man has already heard that Ukrainian women are willing to marry foreigner and according to the facts if American man has aim to marry Ukrainian woman, he will in most cases. Even if the first Ukrainian women he meet say “No”, the second or the third one will say “yes”.